Comments on: New Year’s expectations… http://www.jensanity.com/2010/01/03/new-years-expectations/ make of yourself a light Wed, 07 Jul 2010 11:55:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Dez http://www.jensanity.com/2010/01/03/new-years-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-168 Dez Mon, 04 Jan 2010 03:47:09 +0000 http://www.jensanity.com/?p=276#comment-168 Hang in there! Remember one year ago when I was in this exact same position and you were sending me nice comments to try and make me feel better.......I didn't believe you either!!!!! But you were right, and I am right now! YOU WILL FEEL BETTER! IT WILL TAKE A REALLY LONG TIME AND YOU WILL FEEL WORSE BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY FEEL BETTER, BUT IT WILL HAPPEN. Hang in there and know that many people love you and are here for you too.....just like you were there for me. Love ya. Hang in there! Remember one year ago when I was in this exact same position and you were sending me nice comments to try and make me feel better…….I didn’t believe you either!!!!! But you were right, and I am right now! YOU WILL FEEL BETTER! IT WILL TAKE A REALLY LONG TIME AND YOU WILL FEEL WORSE BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY FEEL BETTER, BUT IT WILL HAPPEN. Hang in there and know that many people love you and are here for you too…..just like you were there for me.

Love ya.

]]> By: Cassondra http://www.jensanity.com/2010/01/03/new-years-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-167 Cassondra Sun, 03 Jan 2010 21:28:36 +0000 http://www.jensanity.com/?p=276#comment-167 You do not sound at all bitter! You are one of the most honest, giving people I have ever met. Taking time for yourself when you need it is one of the wisest things you can do. I know it sounds cliche, but these things really do take time. I admire your strength, and I'm proud of your growth. "It's OK to change. Sometimes it's not just OK, but mandatory. You can let go of some beliefs that maybe have served you well along the way, but just don't work for you anymore. We're supposed to grow and evolve. We have to give ourselves the permission and freedom to stay open to change. I'm not talking about throwing away our core principles and values and morals. I'm talking about exactly the opposite. I'm talking about letting life's experiences affect you and mature you." You do not sound at all bitter! You are one of the most honest, giving people I have ever met. Taking time for yourself when you need it is one of the wisest things you can do. I know it sounds cliche, but these things really do take time. I admire your strength, and I’m proud of your growth.

“It’s OK to change. Sometimes it’s not just OK, but mandatory. You can let go of some beliefs that maybe have served you well along the way, but just don’t work for you anymore. We’re supposed to grow and evolve. We have to give ourselves the permission and freedom to stay open to change. I’m not talking about throwing away our core principles and values and morals. I’m talking about exactly the opposite. I’m talking about letting life’s experiences affect you and mature you.”

]]> By: Betherann http://www.jensanity.com/2010/01/03/new-years-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-165 Betherann Sun, 03 Jan 2010 10:47:33 +0000 http://www.jensanity.com/?p=276#comment-165 Feel better! New Year's is always a rather lame time for me (yeah, you can bet I ranted about that on my blog...). I'm glad that you're doing your best to take care of yourself and keeping moving, feeling, living, in spite of your melancholy. I'm rooting for ya! :) Feel better!

New Year’s is always a rather lame time for me (yeah, you can bet I ranted about that on my blog…). I’m glad that you’re doing your best to take care of yourself and keeping moving, feeling, living, in spite of your melancholy. I’m rooting for ya! :)

]]> By: Stace http://www.jensanity.com/2010/01/03/new-years-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-164 Stace Sun, 03 Jan 2010 09:58:18 +0000 http://www.jensanity.com/?p=276#comment-164 Jen, you never cease to amaze me. Seriously - can you do me a favor? Take your left arm and wrap it (tight) around your right shoulder. Now put your other arm on your left side and squeeze - that's me giving you a long distance hug. Cheesy, yes, but often still effective. I'm in awe of your grace through all of this and love you. I'm keeping my distance because sometimes that's the nicest thing you can do for someone who's going through this sort of thing, but you know I'm a phone call away when you're ready. And I, for one, am happy that you did post a journal entry: that's what blogs are for! xoxo Jen, you never cease to amaze me. Seriously – can you do me a favor? Take your left arm and wrap it (tight) around your right shoulder. Now put your other arm on your left side and squeeze – that’s me giving you a long distance hug. Cheesy, yes, but often still effective. I’m in awe of your grace through all of this and love you. I’m keeping my distance because sometimes that’s the nicest thing you can do for someone who’s going through this sort of thing, but you know I’m a phone call away when you’re ready. And I, for one, am happy that you did post a journal entry: that’s what blogs are for! xoxo

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